Hi there! I’m back from my nightmare-like final examinations :) One more
to go before ending this second semester of mine. I just posted this blog.
And so here goes another love problem. What will you do if you fall for
your friend's crush? :)
For me there's nothing wrong with that. The guy is not your friend's
treasure after all, but why don't we have an analogy (to make things
complicated :D)?
What if you want to have that big pink teddy bear in a gift shop &
you found out that it's the only stock left. You noticed that your friend
wanted to have that teddy bear too. What will you first think of your friend?
Majority of answer, RIVAL.
If you really value your friendship & you don't want to build conflict
between the two of you, I have some plans for you:
- STOP YOUR FEELINGS, as much
as possible. Learn to let go & give way :)
- If you can't stop it, then
KEEP YOUR FEELINGS SECRET. This is just a mere act of lie but if you think
your friend will treat you as a rival, better do this that to start a
conflict.
- If you think your friend
will understand what you feel, then TELL HER. Maybe she will challenge you
"may the best girl win his heart" :) Lucky you. :)
But also, be ready for the worst case scenario. WHAT IF THE GUY LIKES
YOU BACK? :)
And that is another story. :)
